January 2005

CERC’S

Mature Women’s Chronicle

Your Job Search Connection

January 2005

 

What’s Inside for the Mature Woman?

 

*  Port Hope CERC is MOVING

*  Emotional Well Being Quiz

*  Feature Article:  Don’t Hibernate:

      Staying Fit Strategies for Winter

*  A Wellness Mindset for 2005

*  Ask a Wise Woman

*  Personal Goal of the Month

*  Resources 

*  Quote of the Month

 

Port Hope CERC is MOVING

 

                          The Port Hope CERC office will be MOVING.  Please come and see us as we settle into a new “homein April 2005.

More details to come.

Emotional Well-Being Quiz

 

Source:  Human Resources and

Skills Development Canada

 

You may remember that we talked about emotional well being in last month’s issue of The Mature Women’s Chronicle (Hint…How about a thought adjustment).  With a new year upon us, we want to remind you how important it is to be emotionally well.  Take this quick quiz and be honest in your answers.  Then think about ways in which you can make positive changes.

 

1.      ____ I generally face up to problems

               and cope with change effectively.

2.      ____ I worry very little about future

               possibilities or things I can’t change.

3.      ____ I seldom experience moods of

               depression.

4.    ____ I laugh several times a day and

                usually fit “play” into my schedule.

5.      ____ I usually express my anger directly

               and firmly, but without labeling the

               other person.

 

“Don’t Hibernate:  Staying Fit Strategies for Winter”

 

Source:  Taken directly from an article written by Catherine Morisset, Fifty-Five Plus, November 2004.

 

With winter fast approaching, many people fall into pseudo-hibernation – they switch from summer’s activities to a very sedentary life that lasts for six to eight months, pretending that exercising sporadically four months of the year will get them all the health benefits they need.  Get real!  This only makes sense if you are programmed to also stop eating and to sleep through the winter. 

 

Hibernating Excuses

The excuses I hear for hibernation are usually the cold weather, shorter days and the feeling that you

 

have less energy.  Of course, you’ll have less

energy if you never go into sunlight and don’t move – and not moving also means you’ll have less energy.

 

Maybe you are scared of ice and snow, that you’ll fall and break something?  Well, of course it does get slippery.  And on those days you can choose some of the activities I will describe.  But what about changing your mental attitude, making it a priority for you to keep fit, no matter what the weather?

 

Fitness is about making movement a part of your regular lifestyle.  Fitness is about the small decisions you make daily.  Make fitness easier by making it part of your life – on the same level as brushing your teeth or taking a shower.

 

Get up and just DO something

So get out of your chair, yes NOW.  Stand up.  Walk around your house or apartment three times.  Sit down.  There you go, you just started a fitness program.  How long did it take?  I’d say five minutes if your house is large and you were slow.  Well, it’s not the Olympics, but being fit doesn’t have anything to do with pushing you to the edge of human performance.  It’s about moving a little more, a little more often.

 

Three basic tips to get and stay fit, even in sub-zero temperatures:

  1. Make fitness a priority

²     Yes, you will move today, NOW in fact.  Get up again, walk around your house three times (try going the other way for new scenery) or climb the stairs (if you have them) three times.  Then you can sit down.

  1. Find a time for your fitness activities

²     Make it mindless:  What about Monday, Wednesday, Friday at 9:00am?

²     Start small with 15 minutes at a time.  As you get fit and bold in those 15 minutes, add to the duration, aiming for 30 minutes of continuous movement.

  1. Do something – anything – to move during your fitness time

²     Walk around the house (you know the drill).

²     Climb the stairs.

²     Put good music on and dance wildly (close your curtains if you are uneasy about the neighbours).

 

See February’s issue for more tips …

 

A Wellness Mindset for 2005

 

Why not resolve to enhance your State of Wellness this year. We will keep you motivated every month with timely articles to keep you focused!!! A good starting point is to adopt:

 

The Basic Principles of Wellness

 

·        Wellness is greater than health.

·        You are it; it is up to you –don’t put your well being in the hands of government, your employer or the weather put it where it belongs…in your hands.

·        You will get wake-up calls –we all get wake-up calls about main areas of our health and well being – too often we don’t answer the call.

·        Well being involves awareness and action –good intentions are not good enough – you must actively do things to create wellness in your life.

·        There are consequences to all your choices – every choice we make  - physical, emotional etc, results in a step to alter our present state of wellness. 

·        Our motivation for health and well being is peppered with excuses –We have become masters of excuses and our excuses have become the masters of our lives.

·        The bitter pill to swallow: we are 100% responsible for the way we live.

 

Ask a Wise Woman

 

Dear Wise Woman:  Over Christmas I have been thinking about working harder in the New Year to get back into the work

                           force. Would networking

                           help me? Thanks.

 

                              ~ Stay-at-home Sally

 

 

Dear Stay-at-home Sally:

 

Good Idea!!! Networking is simply asking for a reference and many experts agree that creating your own network is a key factor on your road to re-entry and success.

 

Everyday, people recommend and offer referrals  -movies, books, vendors – even to relationships where we play matchmaker - and hire people who we know, like or who come recommended.

 

Networking is about meeting as many people as you can and making contacts…your friends, parents, spouse, neighbour, lawyer, dentist or a bridge or golfing buddy – they all know people that you should speak to!!

 

Remember …networking doesn’t happen

automatically. Take the initiative – people

want to help if you let them. Make sure that

they clearly understand what you do and what you are looking for and how they can help.

Come into CERC – we would love to share our many resources on networking with you.

 

 

 

 

 

 


Personal Goal of the Month

 

Get out there and move around! 

Follow the tips suggested in the

“Don’t Hibernate”

article.

 

Resources

 

Web Site:  www.careercomeback.com

 

Book:  Sher, Barbara.  It’s Only Too Late If You Don’t Start Now.  How to Create Your Second Life at Any Age.  Dell Publishing, 1998.

 

 

Quote of the Month

 

Happy New Year. Everyone!!!

 

 “We wish you the least of the very

worse and the most of the very best.”

 

                                       ~ Anonymous