Community Employment Resource Centre
What’s inside?
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Book
Reviews at CERC
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10
Tips for the Stay-at-Home Parent – Part I
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And
the Winners are …
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Lying
on Your Resume
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Quote
of the Month
Book Reviews at CERC
Keep an eye out for our new series of Book Reviews that will
be on the computers at CERC.
CERC staff members will be reviewing job search books and
related materials and then passing along the important points to you.
10 Tips for the Stay-
-at-Home Parent…
Part I
By
Susan Heathfield
Concerned about getting back in the workforce after a
gap in your employment? How will your
resume, with a five to ten year employment gap, stack up against those of
people who have been racking up career achievements and accomplishments for the
same ten years? Stay-at-home moms and
dads who raise their children, rather than their expertise and visibility in a
workplace, are the largest group to sport these resume gaps. Even a couple of
years out of the workforce can devastate your career if you’re not careful. In
worse case scenarios, you can become unemployable in your field. Even in best case scenarios, you will
undoubtedly take a salary cut and find yourself reporting to someone who would
formerly have reported to you.
This is not to say that returning to work is
hopeless. There are plenty of people who have walked back into an executive
job, developed their dream job or created a career change following chosen
unemployment. It’s just that it’s harder for you with an employment gap. These
tips will help you stay ready for employment while you raise the kids or take a
few years for a non-work activity. It’s much better to spend that time
preparing to be employable than to hit the job market cold after years at home.
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Work With Your Current Employer: Your current employer, assuming you are
still working, may value you and your experience. Talk with your employer to
identify potential part-time or consulting work or periodic assignments you can
do during the years you plan to work less than full time. If you work in
marketing, for example, perhaps you can do freelance work on brochures, the
website or press releases. If you work in Human Resources, you may contract to
update the employee handbook annually or teach a class periodically. This is
the easiest way to stay grounded in the workplace during an extended leave.
Make your best pitch before you leave your job. Don't hesitate to call,
however, even if you have been off work for a period of time.
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Build and Keep Your Network Before You Need
It: It is easier to
maintain current professional contacts than to build a new group a few years
down the road. Professional contacts become dispersed to new positions; mentors
retire; valued coworkers move on to new jobs. It is up to you to maintain
relationships, sometimes for years, with people who will remember your talents
when you decide to return to full-time employment. It is also imperative that
you relate to friends and associates in your off-work life as an educated
professional who has chosen to take time away from her career to raise a
family. Talk about more than the children; make sure your friends know what you
do professionally as well.
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Stay Active in Professional Associations: Most career fields have professional
associations that sponsor meetings, conferences, committees, training sessions
and more for members. Stay active in your local association by attending
meetings, writing for the newsletter, acting as a good will ambassador and
attending national conferences. Volunteer for the activities that most closely
match your career field and interests. Choose activities in which you’ll
interact with many members to expand your network at the same time.
See Part II of this article in next month’s
newsletter.
And the Winners are…
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The winners of our
wellness packages
are:
Eric
Goody, Teresa Harvey & Ben Staples of Cobourg
Barry
Whelan & Ludmila Jackova
of Port
Hope
Congratulations to
our winners!
Next
Wellness draws:
September
3rd and 17th
Lying on Your
Resume
From http://careerplanning.about.com
Let's say you go ahead and
decide to lie on your resume. It's a little white lie. You're not lying about
having a particular job. You worked at the company, you just didn't have all
the responsibilities you said you did. So, you think, “it's no big deal.” Or is
it?
The employer gets your
resume and likes what she sees. She calls you in for an interview where you
must discuss your experience. Now you must continue to lie. Then let's say you
get hired. Uh-oh -- more lies. Not to mention the fact that on the interview
you'll have to be able to adequately discuss something with which you may not
be all that familiar. Then you will have to demonstrate familiarity on the job.
Now you're lying to your boss and your co-workers, and possibly your clients.
Like I said -- potato chips. You can't stop with just one.
Getting Caught
We haven't even taken into
account the most obvious reason for not lying -- getting caught. Most employers
will check your references and then you will likely be found out. You may be
thinking you have nothing to worry about if the employer is no longer in
business. Think again.
I always marvel at what a
small world it is. This is especially true within industries and professional
communities. People network and names are mentioned. You never know who your
boss knows or who he will meet. Imagine the embarrassment of being called into
your boss's office, having him look you in the eye and say in a serious voice
“I know.” Wouldn't you want to be swallowed up by a big hole in the floor?
You may not even need
anyone else to reveal your lie. You can do yourself in by not being able to
demonstrate the necessary skills when you need to. Your lie will be revealed or
your boss will just think you're incompetent. Either way, you may be looking
for work again (hopefully a little more honestly this time around). But is
getting fired all you have to look forward to? I think not. Let's see what the
other ramifications are.
So you lost your job. Easy
come, easy go. You'll find another one. Or will you? By lying on your resume,
you may have set into motion a series of events that will follow you for many
years.
Let's say your boss finds
out you lied and sends you packing. You need a job, so you start searching for
the next one. You learned your lesson and vow never to lie again. You redo your
resume. Oh wait. What about the job from which you just got fired? Should you
list it? Isn't leaving it off lying? So again, you're faced with the question,
should you lie on your resume? Leave off the job, and you may be faced with the
problem of explaining what you were doing during the time you were working for
your former employer. That could be a significant amount of time depending on
how long they bought your lie.
So, you decide to include
the job on your resume. You get called in for an interview. During the course
of the interview, the prospective employer asks you why you left your previous
job. Uh-oh. Here you go again. Should you tell the truth and give up any hope
of getting hired? Should you lie... again?
You decide to lie again.
You say you left the job because you realized it wasn't right for you. You
leave hoping they won't check your references. Or that your previous employer
won't say anything. However, when the prospective employer calls your previous
employer, he finds out you were fired and that you lied to get the job. End of
job. End of story.
Quote
of the Month
“If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door”
~ Milton Berle